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Overcoming Perfectionism in Songwriting

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“How can I write songs with perfectionism?”

If this sounds like you, you're not alone. Many songwriters, even those who are otherwise confident in their creative abilities, face a similar battle. Writing lyrics can feel like an uphill climb when you’re constantly grappling with the desire for perfection. But the good news is that you’re not the first to feel this way—and many artists have found ways to overcome it.

Understanding Perfectionism in Songwriting

Perfectionism is often rooted in fear: fear of failure, of not being good enough, or of being judged. For songwriters, this fear can be magnified by the highly personal nature of songwriting—every word feels like it’s a direct reflection of your inner self. But while this need for perfection can drive you to create better work, it can also be paralyzing.

Consider this: you’ve been working on a song for months. The chords and melody are there, but the lyrics? They feel random and meaningless. You try to make them meaningful, but end up overthinking everything, feeling more frustrated with each attempt. You know the advice—“Just have fun! Don’t worry about the destination!”—but it’s easier said than done.

Learning from Famous Music Creators Who Overcame Perfectionism

Many famous music creators have struggled with perfectionism and found ways to move past it. Here are a few examples:

  1. Paul McCartney – When writing "Yesterday," McCartney initially had a melody but no lyrics. He filled the gaps with nonsense phrases like “Scrambled eggs, oh my baby, how I love your legs.” McCartney didn’t force the lyrics; he allowed them to come naturally over time, without pressuring himself to achieve instant perfection. Eventually, the song became one of the most iconic tracks of all time.
  2. Lorde – In an interview, Lorde talked about feeling immense pressure after the success of her debut album, Pure Heroine. She confessed that she often felt blocked by her own perfectionism while writing her second album, Melodrama. To move forward, she embraced imperfection and focused on creating something honest and true to herself, rather than aiming for some external standard of perfection.
  3. Kendrick Lamar – Lamar is known for his meticulous approach to lyrics, often revisiting and rewriting songs multiple times. However, in interviews, he’s shared that he combats perfectionism by reminding himself that “perfection” is subjective and that he must remain open to imperfection to keep his work authentic and relatable.

Strategies to Overcome Perfectionism in Your Songwriting

  1. Set Small, Achievable Goals
    Rather than aiming to write the perfect song, start by setting small, manageable goals. Try writing just a verse, a chorus, or even a single line. Focus on the process rather than the outcome. For example, dedicate 20 minutes a day to writing without judgment. The key is to keep moving forward.
  2. Embrace the Imperfect Draft
    Remember that every great song started as a rough draft. Allow yourself to write badly. Tell yourself that it’s okay for the first version to be “ugly.” Many successful songwriters produce dozens of drafts before landing on something they love. If Paul McCartney can start with “scrambled eggs,” you can give yourself permission to start with something imperfect too!
  3. Separate Writing from Editing
    When you’re writing, don’t edit. And when you’re editing, don’t write. These are two distinct processes. When you’re writing, let the words flow without stopping to judge or critique. Editing is for later, once you have material to work with. This method can help keep your creative juices flowing without being blocked by perfectionism.
  4. Give Your Song Time
    If a song is frustrating you, put it aside for a while. Distance can provide clarity. Some of the best songs came to their creators in moments of calm, far removed from the initial frustration. Paul Simon once described how he would leave a song alone for weeks, only to find that the perfect lyrics would suddenly come to him when he wasn’t actively trying.
  5. Practice Self-Compassion
    Recognize that perfectionism often comes from a place of insecurity. Remind yourself that you are fully capable and that no one is judging you as harshly as you might judge yourself. Think of your favorite artists—their imperfections make them unique and memorable. Your voice, your thoughts, and your emotions are worth expressing, flaws and all.

Moving Forward with Confidence

Remember that songwriting is supposed to be an enjoyable, creative outlet, not a source of frustration. Accept that the “perfect” song may never exist, and that’s okay. Instead, focus on creating something authentic, something that feels true to you, even if it isn’t flawless.

By taking small steps, practicing self-compassion, and learning from those who’ve walked the path before you, you can begin to let go of the perfectionism that’s holding you back. Your music is waiting to be heard, and it doesn’t have to be perfect to be powerful.

Final Thoughts

Every songwriter faces their own version of this struggle. Remember that the journey is as important as the destination, and sometimes, the best songs come from letting go of the need for perfection. Keep writing, keep experimenting, and most importantly, keep enjoying the process. Your best work might just be around the corner.